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Saturday, March 20, 2010

Home Birth

Well I am broaching a subject that I must admit I am not too well informed on. I am bringing it up because I am looking at it as an option for my next birth.
I have thought about home birth since I first fell pregnant with Noah. I didn't know much about what was involved but liked the idea of being in the comfort of my home and having complete privacy and calm. Not much has changed, I know a little more but have much research to do and I still love the idea of being in my own home in a calm and quiet atmosphere.
My main reason for actually bringing this up as a serious consideration next time around is due to the speed of my past deliveries. Noah was a 3 hour labour and Lili was 30 mins. Going from waters breaking to birth Noah was 4 hrs 15 mins and Lili was 2 hrs 20 mins. From the time I knew I was definitely in early labour with Lili til her birth was less than an hour... this is what worries me. Also she was 2-3 wks early (depending on which date you use) so who knows when the next one will arrive.
What happens if I am sitting at home with my 2 kids and I go into labour? I most certainly would not drive myself due to my history of going from early labour to active labour so quickly and the intensity of it. My husband works 40-60 mins away. Then add a 10-15 min drive to the hospital. Chances are baby would be here before he even makes it home! My sister lives nearby but has 3 of her own children and I have a neighbour who may be able to look after my kids while I go in an ambulance... if she is home. My mum works at least an hour away. That is seriously narrowing down my options.
This is why home birth has suddenly become a very real prospect! I am not sure when I will have my next baby but I want to be prepared. What if the private midwives indemnity insurance is taken away and it becomes illegal for them to practice? What happens to people like me?
Only time will tell what will happen and I can only hope that I am able to have a safe home birth with a private midwife present. Hopefully more people can help petition against homebirth becoming illegal... for more info visit: http://www.homebirthaustralia.org/keep-private-midwifery-alive
Even if you don't want a homebirth, if you believe in every woman having the right to choose then it's important to help fight!
I didn't write this blog just to get people to help the cause, I am genuinely concerned about my next labour and delivery. I was just lucky that I went into labour on a Saturday with Lili or I may have had her at home with no assistance and no husband. There is every possibility that my next labour will be longer but the odds are stacked up against that happening... ">

Friday, March 19, 2010

Domestic Bliss link

This is the link to my 'Domestic Bliss' section. It contains posts about life at home and the things my children get up to.
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Out and About

This is a link to my 'out and about' section of my blog which contains posts about our adventures and things I have found whilst out and about. My latest entry is worth the read if I do say so myself (particularly if you are interested in breastfeeding talk!)
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Links

I will now attach some links to previous blog posts with a short run down in case you are interested in reading them.
Birth Stories: Obviously, this is a link to my birth stories so feel free to have a read! My labours were very quick and intense but wonderful!
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Welcome to my blog!

After attempting a copy and paste from my previous blog site and failing, I will do a new introduction!
My name is Jess, I'm 26 and married to Ben, also 26. We have been together 10 years and were married 21/10/06. We live in Western Sydney near the Riff and have 3 dogs, 1 cat and a budgie.
On 7/1/08 we welcomed our son, Noah Benjamin to the world. He was a beautiful, perfect little baby and so easy to look after. We love having him in our life and couldn't ask for more in a son. He was such a good sleeper and gave us such little grief that we welcomed our daughter Lili Anne to the world on 4/7/09. Lili was also beautiful and perfect and so tiny. Lili suffered severe silent reflux though so the first 6 months of life were difficult for all of us. She is now off medication and doing well and things are much more pleasant.
I love being a full time stay at home mum and wouldn't change any of it for the world. Each day brings new challenges and successes and my life is complete... for now! Yes we will add to our family one day, when we are not sure exactly.
My views can be strong and I tend to shy away from confrontation in real life, but in the world of blogging I feel comfortable expressing myself fully, so you'll see the real me warts and all!
I look forward to reading your comments! ">

Ch ch ch changes

Hi to the world of bloggers!
I am throwing a spanner in the works and changing my blog host site. Personally I find Weebly a bit hard to navigate and just not what I'm after so I've jumped ship! I'll copy and paste all my blogs across and start again :) ">